Articles Written by:    DR. GARY SMALLEY     

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Finding the Positives in Your Problems

I once counseled a young wife who had been sexually attacked when she was a young girl. I could see by the expression on her face that she was still discouraged and distressed about the incident and embarrassed to talk about it. Feeling she had been ...

From DR. GARY SMALLEY, Crosswalk,  15 Oct 2008

Protecting Yourself from a Life Crisis

When a crisis strikes, we can be like two boys running along near the safety of home and finding themselves in the middle of a field of deadly snakes. As you can imagine, these boys would normally not be prepared to deal with rattlesnakes. But, suppose ...

From DR. GARY SMALLEY, Crosswalk,  28 May 2008

Resolving Marriage Conflicts so Both Spouses Win

Can a couple in conflict ever reach a win/lose solution? What if a husband gets a new job in a different state that is going to make his life easier and the family's life easier, but the wife doesn't think it would be a wise move? They spend over a ...

From DR. GARY SMALLEY, Crosswalk,  23 May 2008
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Finding Fulfillment in Life

People, places and things are the gifts of life, not the Source of life … From different painful experiences that I have been through, I've learned that I was looking for love, peace and joy in all the wrong places. In other words, I had spent a ...

From DR. GARY SMALLEY, Crosswalk,  23 May 2008

Look to God, Not Your Spouse, for True Fulfillment

When my wife stopped fighting me about my obsession toward work, as well as other issues, she unleashed a powerful force in my life, though neither of us understood it at the time. Independent of me, Norma learned how to get in line and bring her ...

From DR. GARY SMALLEY, Crosswalk,  20 Mar 2008

How to Become a Better Listener

A necessary way of communicating love to our children is listening in an understanding way. Listening is one skill that many people take for granted. However, I believe listening is so important that I recommend parents purchase a book or enroll in a ...

From DR. GARY SMALLEY, Crosswalk,  13 Mar 2008

Align Marital Expectations with Reality

One of the biggest energy draining experiences most adults stumble through is a strained marriage. I think back over the number of times Norma and I have been bent out of shape. It's amazing how the tone of our relationship could get so dark so fast. ...

From DR. GARY SMALLEY, Crosswalk,  13 Dec 2007

Building Marital Security While Living in a Culture of Divorce

Gary: In this day and age, security in the marriage relationship almost seems to have gone the way of the dodo. Roughly half of all marriages end in divorce, and the statistics are about the same among Christians as they are in society at large. Yet ...

From DR. GARY SMALLEY, Crosswalk,  1 Aug 2007

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